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Social Distance Caregiving: Love in the time of Coronavirus

Social Distance Caregiving: Love in the time of Coronavirus

Is it possible in the age of social distancing that we can also be a caregiver? Caregiving involves empathy and connection. You have empathy. However, maintaining a connection during mandated social distancing is difficult.

Social distance caregiving is similar to long-distance caregiving. Read this post for 10 tips for long-distance caregivers.

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Help Aging Family Members by Discussing Mobility Issues

Help Aging Family Members by Discussing Mobility Issues

The following is a guest post by byACRE to share information for the Sandwich Generation. We do not have any financial arrangements with byACRE and do not profit from them.

The holiday season draws families, friends and neighbors together to spend quality time with one another. For many, this holiday season may be the first time they notice a change in a loved one’s health, including their personal mobility. It may be difficult to talk to aging family members about certain issues, mobility is an important one.

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Personal care assistant: Does your parent need a helper ?

Personal care assistant: Does your parent need a helper ?

When you are a parent of young children, a “mother’s helper” can be a godsend. They help around the house or watch the children so the parent can get things done. Shouldn’t there be a “daughter’s helper” or “son’s helper”? Someone to help your aging parents with household tasks, errands, etc.?

As more seniors choose to age in place, Personal Care Assistants (PCAs) are on the rise. Although they are not qualified medical assistants such as home health aides, personal care assistants provide many helpful services.

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Interview on The Income Generation Show

Interview on The Income Generation Show

Interview with David Scranton on the Income Generation - Air Date 3/7/2019

I was honored to be asked back on the Income Generation Show with David J. Scranton. Although it was a brief interview, we covered many important topics:

  • Why is estate planning important to the “Sandwich Generation”?

  • How estate planning is as important during your life as it is at your death

  • How can you encourage aging parents to get started on their estate planning

  • How to organize legal documents in case of emergency: The 911 Binder

  • Three pieces of advice for estate planning

Click on the above link to watch the clip.

Naming guardians for your children

Naming guardians for your children

When making their wills, the biggest hurdle parents face is deciding who should take care of their minor children. This is especially difficult when parents can’t agree on who the best guardian is for their children.

Recognize that no one will be as good as you in understanding your children. However, that doesn’t mean your guardian can’t do their best. You must identify the next best person. It is not an easy decision, but naming guardians for your children is one you should make.

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Do I need an estate planning or an elder law attorney?

Do I need an estate planning or an elder law attorney?

Estate planning is such a misnomer.

First of all, people mistakenly think estate planning is only for the rich. For example, you must have an ‘estate’ first to worry about planning for it.

Secondly, it has less to do with your ‘estate’ and more to do with protecting your family. If you are incapacitated or die, who will care for your loved ones?

It really should be called “family planning” because attorneys help you care for your family for when you are not there. Although “family planning” means something else entirely!

As if estate planning isn’t confusing enough – now when you look for a lawyer, you see many different titles: estate planning or elder law attorney. Even probate lawyer. Which is better for you? Do you need an estate planning or elder law attorney or a probate lawyer?

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Help parents downsize and keep the peace – 6 tips

Help parents downsize and keep the peace – 6 tips

Want to help your aging parents downsize in preparation for a move? Tread carefully!

Recognize that this is an emotional time for them.  Your parents have spent a lifetime accumulating possessions so it may be hard for them to be objective. Be sensitive to their feeling and try not to be pushy. The whole process may take longer than you like. Unless you have a certain deadline such as a house sale, try to follow their timetable for getting rid of items.

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How to talk to aging parents  –  tips for a family meeting

How to talk to aging parents – tips for a family meeting

Getting together with family, especially during the holidays, is a great opportunity to catch up with your parents. As your parents age, you and your siblings may want to talk with them about any health concerns and their future plans.

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It’s National Estate Planning Awareness Week!

It’s National Estate Planning Awareness Week!

Did you know October 19 – October 25th, 2020 is National Estate Planning Awareness Week?

Now you do!

Here are some fun facts:

  • National Estate Planning Awareness Week is celebrated in the 3rd week of October.

  • The National Association of Estate Planners & Councils (NAEPC) led the effort to educate people about the importance of estate planning.

  • It was passed by Congress in 2008.

And here are not so fun facts:

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Are you a member of the Sandwich Generation?

Are you a member of the Sandwich Generation?

Are you a member of the Sandwich Generation? Do you care for your children but also help take care of your aging parents? Even if they do not live close by, do you have concerns about their care?

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