Tag: family conversations

Checklist for a death in the family – what to do after a loss

Checklist for a death in the family – what to do after a loss

A death in the family is one of the most stressful events you will experience. As you grieve, you face multiple administrative tasks. First, you must make final arrangements. Then you go through probate to settle your loved one’s affairs. And in between, you manage the many little details following a death. However, if you use a checklist for death in the family, you can manage all these responsibilities.

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Brick wall moments – dealing with stubborn aging parents

Brick wall moments – dealing with stubborn aging parents

Are you a caregiver for your aging parents? At the very least, are you concerned about them as they age? Wouldn’t it be lovely to help your parents without any objections?

As if!  What if you have stubborn aging parents?

When talking with your parents about aging issues and suggesting help for them you will most likely have many “brick wall moments.” This is when a reasonable suggestion or a suggestion made from a place of love is met with strenuous resistance, to put it mildly.

Either the parent puts up a brick wall and won’t entertain the idea. Or you will want to hit your head against a brick wall in frustration. Oftentimes, both are true.

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When your aging parents won’t talk about their future plans

When your aging parents won’t talk about their future plans

Are you a caregiver for your aging parents? At the very least, are you concerned about them as they age?

Oftentimes, children want to help their parents but the parents won’t communicate with them on what they need. When children want to help their aging parents plan for the future, they are met with resistance or “Brickwall Moments.”

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What is a living will? An explanation of advance medical directives

What is a living will? An explanation of advance medical directives

A living will or advance medical directive is a legal document in which you declare, in the event of a terminal or end-of-life condition, to withhold or withdraw life prolonging measures.

This is important to determine what measures you want (or don’t want) to artificially extend your life. While this is an unpleasant decision to think about, it is more distressing to your loved ones. They will be the ones faced with these decisions. Especially if there is a difference of opinion among them. Of course, your loved ones want to do the “right” thing. However, there is often disagreement about what the “right” course of action is.

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How to talk to aging parents  –  tips for a family meeting

How to talk to aging parents – tips for a family meeting

Getting together with family, especially during the holidays, is a great opportunity to catch up with your parents. As your parents age, you and your siblings may want to talk with them about any health concerns and their future plans.

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It’s National Estate Planning Awareness Week!

It’s National Estate Planning Awareness Week!

Did you know October 19 – October 25th, 2020 is National Estate Planning Awareness Week?

Now you do!

Here are some fun facts:

  • National Estate Planning Awareness Week is celebrated in the 3rd week of October.

  • The National Association of Estate Planners & Councils (NAEPC) led the effort to educate people about the importance of estate planning.

  • It was passed by Congress in 2008.

And here are not so fun facts:

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For richer or poorer: Having a financial conversation with your spouse

For richer or poorer: Having a financial conversation with your spouse

Having a financial conversation with your spouse may be harder than scheduling a date night. While it may be boring and uncomfortable going over finances and budgets, it is important for your family’s financial health. Talking about spending and saving gets you and your spouse on the same page working together towards your shared goals.

Many times, one spouse primarily pays the bills and manages the money. What happens if the spouse handling the money suddenly becomes incapacitated or dies? The spouse left behind has to figure out everything.

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