Social Distance Caregiving: Love in the time of Coronavirus
Is it possible in the age of social distancing that we can also be a caregiver? Caregiving involves empathy and connection. You have empathy. However, maintaining a connection during mandated social distancing is difficult.
Social distance caregiving is similar to long-distance caregiving. Read this post for 10 tips for long-distance caregivers.
To provide caregiving at a safe distance, try to anticipate needs and check in regularly. Here are some tips with helpful links to get you started on social distance caregiving.
Tips for caregiving at a distance
Keep in contact with technology apps
There are endless social media channels like Facebook, Instagram, etc. However, having face-to-face contact is better in many ways. You can observe how your loved one is doing. You can get a sense of their living situation. With FaceTime and Zoom, you can schedule virtual visits which will cheer up your loved one. With Houseparty, you can connect several people and even play trivia games. Don’t underestimate the loneliness a loved one may feel during this time.
Order groceries & supplies
Get a list from your loved ones of what they need in terms of food and sundries. Stock up on toilet paper, paper towels, adult diapers, etc. Many local groceries have online pickup and delivery services. Another benefit is that they keep a list of past orders so re-ordering favorite items are easy.
Order prescription and over the counter medications
Ask your loved one’s doctor for a 60-90 day prescription so you don’t have to order monthly. Many online pharmacies also send reminders when prescriptions are due for refills. Order general health supplies such as first aid kits and cold and headache medicine so it is on hand if needed.
Look into food delivery options
There are many options for food delivery. By ordering meals for your loved ones, you know they are eating healthy and regularly. Most restaurants now offer some type of meal delivery service. Meals on Wheels not only provides meals to at-risk seniors but can be “eyes and ears” to monitor the health of your loved one.
Send letters, gifts, care packages to cheer them up
In a letter, you can write a list of fun things to look forward to once the pandemic is over. Or share favorite memories of past gatherings and events. Put a smile on their face with care packages of treats, books, puzzles, etc.
Since there is more time to watch tv, set them up with a Netflix or Disney+ subscription.
Put together an emergency plan
What if your loved one was suddenly hospitalized? Do you have their important papers such as a healthcare power of attorney or advance medical directives?
Create a family information binder to organize all medical, legal, and financial information on your loved one. In case of emergency, you have one place to go to for the help you need.
Click here to get started on a family information binder.
As you can see, there are many ways to provide caregiving and love during a pandemic. Be more creative and reach out to these resources for help.
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